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Mom can’t smoke around the child…

Wednesday, November 11th, 2009
Cincinatti Enquirer

Cincinatti Enquirer

An Ohio appeals court has upheld a judge’s order barring the mother of a 9-year-old girl from smoking around her daughter, the Cincinnati Enquirer reports. Legal experts say that the issue of parental smoking is an increasingly common one in child custody disputes. One lawyer suggests a simple rule of thumb: “parents who wish to retain custody of their children should not smoke in front of them.” Janice Morse, The Cincinnati Enquirer 11/08/2009

In April 2008, Victoria’s paternal great-grandmother, Marilyn Anderson, objected to the child’s mother, Racheal Hill, smoking around Victoria during visits. The child returned home “smelling of cigarette smoke as a result of Racheal smoking in her home and car,” court records say.

Eight months later, the court ordered all parties to protect Victoria from second-hand smoke; the appeals court, which oversees an eight-county area, upheld the smoking ban Oct. 26.

Disputes over parental smoking have been cropping up in family-court cases nationwide, legal experts say, and the cases highlight two competing interests: A parent’s right to smoke versus a child’s right to breathe smoke-free air.

Courts appear to be deciding such clashes based on the “best interest of the child,” rather than whose “rights” win out, Kansas lawyer Jeanette Igbenebor wrote in a 2002 article, “Smoking as A Factor in Child Custody Cases.”

The article recommends: “As a simple truism, parents who wish to retain custody of their children should not smoke in front of them.”

Action on Smoking and Health, a non-smokers’ rights group in Washington, D.C., says courts in at least 18 states have ruled that “subjecting a child to tobacco smoke is a factor which should be considered in deciding custody.”

In the Warren County case, even with no evidence that Victoria suffers specific reactions or health issues from exposure to smoke, the court ruled that a smoking ban was in the child’s best interest.

To reach that conclusion, the court did something unusual. It “took judicial notice” – without anyone presenting proof in court – of an “avalanche of authoritative scientific studies” that say second-hand smoking poses risks to children.

Taking judicial notice is fairly unusual, said Marianna Brown Bettman, a University of Cincinnati law professor.

“This could be viewed very broadly in future cases,” she said. “If you don’t have to prove that smoking is harmful to your child specifically…then that could become kind of a general order in almost any case.”

Bettman wonders: “Is this going to be now a general standard that’s fair to raise in a disputed child custody case?”

Dayton-area attorney David McNamee, who represents Victoria’s great-grandmother, thinks it should be.

McNamee, who devotes about 90 percent of his law practice to family-court issues, said smoking has become an issue in more child visitation and custody cases during the past five years or so.

Mitchell Karpf, a Florida lawyer who chairs the American Bar Association’s Family Law Section, predicts the smoking issue could evaporate from the courts in coming years. As pressure to quit smoking increases, the number of smokers dwindles, he said.

In the meantime, courts likely will treat smoking “no differently than any other health hazard to a child,” Karpf said.

In Ohio, no-smoking rulings date to at least 2002, when the state Supreme Court upheld a Lake County judge’s decision prohibiting anyone from smoking around a healthy child. That judge acted on his own initiative.

Often, parties agree they shouldn’t smoke in front of kids, McNamee said. McNamee says that he is a smoker, but has never lit up in the presence of his 8-year-old daughter.

Andrea Ostrowski, a Springboro lawyer who represented Racheal Hill, said the case is about a bigger principle than her client’s desire to smoke.

“She doesn’t necessarily mind stepping out of the house (to smoke) when the child is there,” Ostrowski said.

Rather, Hill objects to the court’s “intrusion into her home,” regulating even a legal activity such as smoking, Ostrowski said. The court ruling also limits where Hill can take her daughter, such as to the home of a friend who smokes.

Ostrowski is concerned that the smoking ban “can be used as leverage” against Hill during future visitation and custody proceedings. Hill could be hauled into court on the mere suspicion that she smoked around the child, facing a contempt charge that could bring jail time, Ostrowski said, adding: “How do you prove that you didn’t do something?”

Ostrowski also is concerned that custodial parents could cite this case as an example and try to get courts to enforce limits on other legal activities of non-custodial parents. “The court has opened that door,” she said.

Parenting Time Adjustments to Child Support

Tuesday, February 10th, 2009

Someone recently wrote to me and asked me to post about my views on “parenting time adjustments to child support”.  The writer wasn’t very clear on what he meant by this, so I will just comment generally.  Side note, it is nice to hear from someone out there that actually reads my posts.  Sometimes it feels like I’m talking to the air.  :)

As a general rule, child support and parenting time are separate issues.  In other words, just because parent A refuses to allow parent B to see the child does not give parent B the right to stop making child support payments.  And, vice versa.

Texas has standard guidelines that are presumed to apply.  That refers to the standard possession schedule and the standard child support guidelines.  When a situation deviates from the standards, the court has discretion as to how to apply the guidelines. But, the analysis in each case begins with the application of the standard possession schedule and the standard guidelines for child support.  So, in a case where one parent has primary possession and the other parent has the standard possession schedule, it is presumed that the parent with the standard possession schedule will pay child support according to the standard guidelines (i.e., 20% for one child, 25% for two, etc.)

Child support can, however, be adjusted up or down based on the amount of time a child spends with each parent.  On the one hand, if parent B fails to exercise his or her parenting time, leaving parent A with 100% of the responsiblities of caring for the child, the court may award additional amounts of child support to parent A.

On the other hand, if parent A and parent B have a split of time that is roughly equal, the court may take that equal split in account in whether to apply the standard child support guidelines.  I’ve seen courts handle a 50/50 parenting time split in two ways.  First, where the parents make roughly equal incomes, I’ve seen courts call it “even” on child support and make no specific award.  Then, I’ve also seen it where there is a disparity of earning capacity between the parents.  In such a situation, courts will usually calculate what each parent would owe the other in a traditional scenario and net out the difference. 

The bottom line is that the judges have discretion to enter orders taking into account the child’s best interest — as the judge views the best interest.  A judge will almost never be wrong in applying the guidelines, even if the parenting time differs from the standard schedule.  Whether a judge is simply taking the easy route by applying the guidelines, or whether some other factors enter into the decision, the standard guidelines are presumed to apply.  Likewise, a judge will almost never be wrong for deviating from the standard guidelines where the possession schedule also deviates from standard. 

Hope that answers the question………….

Non Standard Possession in Dallas Divorces

Saturday, January 31st, 2009

For some parents, the Standard Possession Order does not fit with their situation or their children. Parents may either agree that an alternate schedule is in the best interest of the child, or a court may order a different schedule. For example, some parents choose to implement a plan where the child spends one week with one parent and the next week with the other parent. Other parents create more complex schedules for possession of the children. Even if the court enters a standard possession order, parents are still free to modify it by mutual agreement. So long as both the parties agree, there is no limit to the parties’ authority to change their respective visitation periods. Here are some suggestions for other non-standard possession schedules that divorce lawyers in Dallas Tx have used:

Equal possession, Week-on/week-off:

Under this type of schedule, the parents choose one day of the week to exchange the children, usually either Friday, Sunday, or Monday. So, every Friday the children will switch houses for the upcoming week. Some families prefer this situation, as it provides each parent the opportunity to spend a longer period with the child and to act as a parent in more of the normal parenting situations than weekend periods provide. On the other hand, some families find difficulty in this schedule because it requires more coordination between the parents on homework, doctors visits, extracurricular activity schedules, and other activities of the child.

Equal possession, 3/2/2/3:

Some children find that they miss the other parent during a week-on/week-off scenario, so a shorter but equal schedule works better. One suggestion for such a schedule would be the 3/2/2/3 schedule. Under this type of schedule, parent “A” would have the children for a three-day period, say Monday through Wednesday. Then, parent “B” would get two days, Thursday and Friday. Then, the children would return to parent “A” for Saturday and Sunday. The next week, parent “B” would get the 3 days, Monday through Wednesday. Then, parent “A” would get the middle two days; followed by parent “B” getting Saturday and Sunday. There are many variations of this type of equal schedule.

Teenager possession:

In some counties, judges will allow more vague provisions for possession of the child, recognizing the realities of teenager’s lives and preferences. Under such a scenario, the schedule would provide that the non-primary parent is allowed possession of the child at all such times as that parent and the child agree.

Child Under Three:

Children under the age of three present unique hurdles in crafting a possession schedule. Research shows that children between birth and the age of three have various developmental stages with regard to short-term and long-term memory. For example, a three-month old child will have virtually no long-term memory, so both parents need frequent contact with the child, say every day or two, so the child establishes a bond with both parents. However, such visits may be shorter in duration, say for a couple of hours, as the child’s attention span is shorter. As the child grows, the long-term memory and bonding become more established, allowing for longer periods at one time, with more time in between each visit.

Supervised possession:

On occasion, a parent may have issues such as substance addiction, domestic violence, or simply separation from the child, that suggest supervision of the parenting times may be warranted. In such situations, the supervised possession schedule will have to be very tailored to the individual circumstance. Usually, such supervised possession will occur during day-time hours on alternating Saturdays. Most often, judges appoint a facility to handle the supervision to ensure that the supervisor is trained in recognizing signs of inappropriate conduct. Sometimes, however, a judge will find an individual, known to both parties, that would be competent to act as supervisor. It is imperative, if the supervisor is an individual, that he or she be committed to protecting the child’s interest over and above the parent’s interest.

Stair-step schedule:

On occasion, there may be a situation where a parent has not seen the child for a period of time, requiring some adjustment schedule to allow the child to get used to the other parent. In such situations, a stair-step schedule can be used effectively to accommodate the child’s adjustment. For example, stage 1, lasting a couple of months, might involve a few hours during the daytime on a couple of days per month, like every other Saturday. Then, stage 2, for another couple of months, might provide the child spends the night with the non-primary parent overnight for those same days, every other Saturday overnight to Sunday. Stage 3 might progress to more of a schedule similar to the standard periods, beginning Friday at 6:00 p.m. until Sunday at 6:00 p.m. That stage might continue for another couple of months. Then, Stage 4 would progress to the Standard Possession Schedule.

High Tech Solutions for Parenting Plans in Dallas Divorces

Sunday, October 5th, 2008

Planning parenting time splits and possession/access schedules with children can be complex and a frequent source of conflict between parents, even in Dallas Texas divorces.  Fortunately, new software tools have been created to simplify the task.  These software resources assist parents in developing, tracking, and adjusting custody schedules and counting overnights.  For parents who live long-distances apart, these tools can be particularly useful. I have not actually used any of these in my practice. Please let me know if you find these useful so I can make recommendations to my clients.

Thank you to the Alaska Divorce Blog for pointing me to this.  Check out the article in the May 2008 Newsletter of the ABA’s Family Law Section for a description of each program.

Virtual Visitation

Tuesday, September 16th, 2008

A little bit of technology and a change in Texas family law are allowing families separated by divorce and distance to maintain close relationships. On September 1, Texas became the fourth state to allow video visitation. While proponents of the practice admit that video visitation cannot replace personal visits, they note that it can serve as a powerful substitute. Andrew D. Smith, Denton Record-Chronicle 11/05/2007